Kevin Toolis

Our existential flight from death - and wisdom on connecting to grief

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About Kevin Toolis

BAFTA winning film maker, director, bardic poet and writer, Kevin Toolis takes on the challenge of revealing how the half forgotten rituals of the past can enable us all to face death without fear. In his book, My Father's Wake: How the Irish Teach Us to Live, Love and Die, Kevin lyrically and poetically explores the death of his own father, Sonny, within the ancestral embrace of the oldest rite of humanity—the Irish Wake. His acclaimed nonfiction chronicle of Ireland's Troubles, Rebel Hearts: Journeys Within the IRA's Soul, is widely regarded as the best single work ever written about the Irish Republican Army. Kevin’s work as a documentary director spans across borders, including Iran, Pakistan, Afghanistan, Syria, Lebanon, and Israel. He has also reported across various socio-contextual topics including wars, famines and plagues. Kevin was nominated for an Emmy for his five part series on the rise of the cult of suicide bombing. Kevin is the founder of Many Rivers Films and a member of an Irish traditional arts band, Wonders of the Wake, that in song, music, keening, and bardic poetry celebrates the sorrow, laughter, and joy of an Irish Wake. 

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Could you count on your fingers the number of corpses you've seen, touched, kissed, or embraced? Death Thought Leader Kevin Toolis challenges us to look past our fear of death. After all, we will all face mortality in due time. Kevin reminds us of rituals that have existed across cultures and centuries that allow us to see, experience, and embrace death with acceptance rather than fear. From Irish Wakes to ancient Greek and Roman folklore, death was  respected and given worth. There was a sense of closure to this cycle through the rituals that guided death. Kevin urges us to connect back to these traditions and find comfort and acceptance in death.

Recognizing death through the lens of community, tradition, and acceptance helps us come to terms with our own cycle of life and death. Watch Kevin Toolis' TEDMED 2020 Talk “Our existential flight from death - and wisdom on connecting to grief” to learn how we can conquer our fear of death and confront our own mortality.


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